Great times, Great moments and Great experience

It has been quite sometimes to have a good break for myself...being caught up with many things around and especially when you have unsettled work around, you will not feel comfortable and settled! thats what i have going through and its still there!

Looking at the huge and dramatically shift in my job and responsibilities, i was given the opportunity to attend a conference in Sunway Pyramid Convention Center for two days from 19 Oct to 20 Oct 2011... it was an informative conference and the best part is the conference was officiate by Datuk Mukhriz Tun Mahathir.. He is an intelligent minister just like his father. Ms Zuraika, Malar and myself had the opportunity to take a picture with him were able to talk a while where others did not have the chance..hahahaha...coming back to the conference, there were 12 experience speakers from various field.. The main reason of this conference is to have a good measurement on the mindset of employees and to accept change in the organisation so that it can bring innovative ideas and change to the employees for not only development of the company but its for the country knowing Malaysia has to improve in their GDP and economic growth where we are not really showing growing and development except for socialising! haha

Having a long sessions there, of course the food provided was too many for people like me to consume as im not a good eater! but these days, I was like eating eating and eating...well, one way of reducing stress without realising :). After attending the formal part, we do pamper ourselves by having a great time in the Mid valley at night...the best part that we were enjoying, taking photographs here and there, furthermore with the glitters around here and there, Deepavali decorations were so fascinating, and glittering every where....it was just creating a mood for another break and to visit friends during the day! I was really taken away with the Kolam decoration there, i wonder how long it has taken for the creator to design such a sweet and colorful Kolam, im just speechless... well done for those who had put in their effort and courage - all are innovation and creativity :).  

We had good time after the conference (the last day), where we had spent little time in Sunway Pyramid Shopping, again with lots and lots photographs as remembrance as we wont know when will the other day comes.. Even though it was a weekdays, the place were filled with so many people, and i just wonder "they dont work tomorrow"? There were people skating and it was so funny looking at them skating and falling..and i know its not easy..the best part is, tamil songs were played all way, is that 1 Malaysia? hmmm what ever but it was nice and awesome....really enjoyed that moment even thought I was so tired as did not have good sleep.... 


Its always that many people, when they go out of office, they will feel relieve in so many things but when they have to go back, its like "oh no" time really flies...same goes to me, time really flies during the 2 days and i really had good valuable time with colleagues and  special dates even its awhile but it really meant so much to me....life gets back to normal when you step into your office and its all back to square one..... and when you back after the break, you will find there are so many things on your table... 


I had another different good moments with my students today where they carried out with stalls selling lots of different items and varieties of food putting in lots of effort which i feel personally its a good experience for students to develop their talent and entrepreneur skills yet i wouldnt say that its all are perfect, there are few hiccups here and there, but I looked at it can be improved... but at the same time it is very difficult to pleased everyone to our side...hmmm things has to change, the mindset of human has to be developed by looking things positively and to encourage but not to pin point or demotivate others who had put in lots of effort!but no point voicing out as it will never change even we talk about change and innovation!!


Another experience that I am going to go through just a few hours time, by bringing some students for a trip to KL tomorrow...I am just tired of things come one after another....cant wait for the short break to pamper and to chill myself with my cousins in Singapore next week!!..i just hope that i can really shop and shop and get what i want there in Singapore as its also going to be my advance Christmas shopping!! :)


I am very sure that i will update more after Deepavali with another new sharing...so just stay tune with me!


Wishing all my friends, a blessed festive of lights, with Life filled with bright lights! :)

Fulfilling a Happy Relationship

Finding someone to be in a relationship is actually quite easy. Finding someone to be in a relationship that actually fulfills us, however, is a different story. So how do we find a relationship that truly fulfills our needs and desires? Setting our priorities straight and having realistic expectations will help guide us into the right direction in finding the relationship we have always wanted. Before we can do that though, we need to make sure that we feel fulfilled on our own first.

So many people ended up in relationships that do not fulfill them because they are entering the relationship with the wrong expectations and for the wrong reasons. A big example of this is someone entering a relationship as a way to feel complete. Many people feel unsatisfied with themselves and their lives, and believe that someone else will be able to fill in that gap for them. Placing the responsibility for our happiness on someone else is unrealistic and will only result in disappointments in the relationship. We also need to acknowledge and accept the fact that there is no such thing as the perfect relationship and that there will be issues that will require teamwork and compromise.

Most people have the idea that if a relationship is truly happy and meant to be, then there never will be any problems and should not require so much work- it should just be happy. Well, if this is how we view relationships, then it is time to change our way of thinking before we set our self up for more painful reality checks. If we are interested in finding a person to build a strong romantic relationship with, the best thing to do would be to start by focusing on our self first- and make sure that we are having our life sorted out, before deciding to share it with someone else. Majority of people would read this say of course, it's common sense and while this may true, people still enter relationship with unrealistic expectation, wrong reasons or before making sure they are fulfilled on their own first.

So if we feel we are ready to be in a serious, committed relationship, do self a favor and take it one step at a time. Review the relationship we have first and make sure that we are truly happy with it and where we stand currently in our life. Ask our self why we feel the need to be in a relationship, what we are prepared to invest into it, as well as what we are expecting from our partner. Sorting this out will help us understand our relationship goals and will help us understand what it is our need to look for in a person when trying to find a romantic partner to share our life with.

To love is nothing, to be loved is something, to love and to be loved is everything in a relationshipJ.

Leaving with a meaningful smile J

My dear October ;)

September just over and October just entered...left another 2 more months and thats it! goodbye 2011...time really really flies ya!!...i just wonder, what i have done for the past 10 months! haha...hmmm lots lots of things came in and went out, i just look at it positively, and just a smile, moving on with confident...


I only look at things thats worth of looking otherwise, why waste time and energy??...lots of precious things came in but it just wipe off away...but i believe that whatever had happened, its all has its own good and reasons!


Im keeping myself very occupied and lots of work i had to do to make sure that i am really well organised to accept and carry my task and responsibility, just hoping that i dont disappoint anyone that had put in high hope on me...oh God, give me the strength to work harder and protect me from all danger :).


When new things comes in, new people also do come in our lives.. i can only say, im positive and hoping that all will move on smooth and smooth.....well, just need to be a little more patient and courage to make things work out! :).